Last week Matthew's father taught a lesson in our pre-marriage classes about Understanding Personalities and Temperments. I learned A LOT about myself that night. I'm glad I can recognize some of my behaviours and tendancies as a part of a certain type of personality now.
I figured I'd share them. They are based on four categories that Hippocrates created. Hopefully I won't have to explain them too much and you'll find yourself in here somewhere too.
Disclaimer: no one is just one personality. you have one prominant one and are a blend of the others. ALSO, each personality trait is good when they're in balance (even the negative traits) so keep that in mind when the bad looks downright ugly.
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SANGUINE (from blood, meaning lively)
[enjoying, optimistic, friendly, compassionate]
[restless, weak-willed, egotistical, emotionally unstable]
Positives: Talkative, Outgoing, Enthusiastic, Warm, Personable, Friendly, Compassionate, Carefree
Negatives: Weak-willed, Unstable, Undisciplined, Restless, Undependable, Egocentric, Loud, Exaggerates, Fearful
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CHOLERIC (from yellow bile, meaning active)
[strong-willed, practical, leader, optimistic]
[hot-tempered, cruel, impetuous, self-sufficient]
Positives: Strong-willed, Determined, Independant, Optimistic, Practical, Productive, Decisive, Leader, Confident
Negatives: Angry/Cruel, Sarcastic, Domineering, Inconsiderate, Proud/Self-Sufficient, Unemotional, Crafty
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MELANCHOLY (from black bile, meaning dark/internal)
[sensitive, perfectionist, faithful friend, self-sacrificing]
[self-centered, pessimistic, moody, revengeful]
Positives: Gifted, Analytical, Sensitive, Perfectionist, Aesthetic, Idealist, Loyal, Self-Sacrificing
Negatives: Self-Centered, Moody, Negative, Theoretical, Impractical, Unsociable, Critical, Revengeful, Rigid
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PHLEGMATIC (from phlegm, meaning slow/lazy)
[witty, dependable, efficient]
[slow/lazy, tease, stubborn, indecisive]
Positives: Calm, Easy-Going, Dependable, Efficient, Conservative, Practical, Leader, Diplomat, Humorous
Negatives: Stingy, Fearful, Indecisive, Spectator, Self-Protective/Selfish, Unmotivated
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And in case you were wondering, I am predominantly MELANCHOLY with a mix of PHLEGMATIC and flecks of the others.
What are you?